So what is it? What’s the most important thing when it comes to attracting women into your life? Well, the answer: You must become an attractive person.
Allow me to elaborate.
Imagine a beautiful girl walking down the street, can she really do anything to stop guys from staring at her? I suppose she could dress up ugly and not wear any makeup, but you know what?
It still wouldn’t work, people would still pay attention to her because her beauty glows. I’m going to show you how to be so attractive that you’ll even get attention when you’re feeling down and you’re having a bad day. Instead of focusing on attracting girls by “tricking” them (that doesn’t work by the way), we’re going to focus on making you an attractive person. By the way, this stuff is a little deeper than usual but I promise it will be worth it.
Secrets Of What Attracts Women
One of the things that I tend to hear a lot in the comments is that guys try to trick or convince women to like them. When you adopt that mentality, it’s as if women aren’t supposed to attracted to to you but if you learn tricks and tips, you can trick them into liking you. Stop! Because that’s not how it works! You will never trick anyone into liking you. Women are much more perceptive than men and they’ll smell any tricks that you try to use a mile away.
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The real answer to what attracts women is: men.
Yes, as blatantly simple as that sounds, that’s what women want. In the same way that heterosexual guys want girls, girls want guys. So just by being you, you already have all the material to attract a woman. The second you walk into a room, women are going to be attracted to you JUST because you’re a guy. You don’t even have to do or say anything, just being you is attractive.
In fact, some guys tend to screw it up by saying too many things.
Don’t try to convince a woman to like you!
As soon as you go into “let’s convince her to like me” mode, you’re instantly communicating this message instead: “I don’t think that I’m good enough for you, so I’m going to try to win you over.”
Instead, the attractive man realizes and KNOWS that women like him just because of who he is.
But first, he must like himself. So that’s what you have to do is you want to attract women, you need to like yourself. Here’s the reasoning behind it: The person in the world that knows you better than anyone else is… yourself. So if you know yourself better than ANYONE else, and you dislike yourself, then what does that say about you?
It means that somewhere, deep down inside, there’s something that’s wrong with you. People might not be able to see it, but they’ll take your word for it.
Be A Great Man
Well now that I’ve told you what makes you unattractive to women, all you need to do to be a chick magnet (I can’t believe I just used that term) is do the complete opposite. If you love yourself, and I mean that in a truly genuine way, in the sense that you’re proud of who you are and what you’re doing in life, it will show. People will assume that you like yourself for a good reason and they’ll assume that you’re a likable person. How you feel about yourself is something that you just can’t fake and it will immediately show when you meet someone.
You know what liking yourself does? It creates curiosity in others. Girls will automatically be curious to know… “Why does this guy like himself so much? What IS it that makes him smile? Why is he so happy?”
In my opinion, this is the biggest secret to attract women for the long haul. You could look like a toad on a stool and still attract women during your first impression if you have the confidence.
Think about it this way: How do you think jerks attract women? Is it because they are inattentive to their feelings? Is it because they don’t call and make a woman feel insecure? No! It is because they are confident in themselves and women are attracted to confidence.
When you have confidence you do all the right things. You talk smoothly, you make eye contact, you hold your body language the right way, and your personality shines through.
It cannot be stressed enough – you have to get confidence.
If you don’t make eye contact with women, you need to start. The eyes tell a woman a lot about who you are and what your intentions are.
If you have a warm look that shows a woman you are kind, then she will instantly be attracted to you. Of course, if you have a look that is full of sexual interest, that could attract a woman too. Every woman wants to know that you are attracted to them.
A MASCULINE ATTITUDE
Even though caveman days are gone, women still look for a man who is a provider, protector, and everything else a stereotypical man should be.
You do not need to make millions or have a masculine face and body to send off this aura about you. You do, however, need to project a masculine attitude that you will protect a woman and have her best interest at heart always, because that is what a masculine man would do!
If you look good with a beard, you may want to try growing one!